THANKS DAD!

Jerry in Army
My Dad–Jerry
March 6, 1921-October 11, 1986

I thought that this Memorial Day I would do a post that is a little more…a lot more personal, I’m thanking my Dad for his service during World War II. He joined the Army a couple of months after the attack on Pearl Harbor, he was 20 years old, and was sent to Camp Adair in Oregon for his training. Talking to my mom, I tried to get a time line of where he was and when, but with time, the dates were getting confused for her. The key points that she remembered was that he was in the 96th Division Signal Corps and that he was sent into the Battle of Leyte Gulf.

THE BATTLE OF LEYTE GULF

The Battle of Leyte Gulf, also called the “Battles for Leyte Gulf”, and formerly known as the “Second Battle of the Philippine Sea”, is generally considered to be the largest naval battle of World War II and also one of the largest naval battle in history.[1]

It was fought in waters near the Philippine island of Leyte, from 23 to 26 October 1944, between naval and naval-air forces of the Allies and those of the Empire of Japan. On 20 October, United States troops invaded the island of Leyte as part of a strategy aimed at isolating Japan from the countries it had occupied in South East Asia, and in particular depriving its forces and industry of vital oil supplies. The Imperial Japanese Navy (IJN) mobilized nearly all of its remaining major naval vessels in an attempt to defeat the Allied invasion, but was repulsed by the US Navy’s 3rd and 7th Fleets. The IJN failed to achieve its objective, suffered very heavy losses, and never afterwards sailed to battle in comparable force. The majority of its surviving heavy ships, deprived of fuel, remained in their bases for the rest of the Pacific War.

The Battle of Leyte Gulf included four major naval battles: the Battle of the Sibuyan Sea, the Battle of Surigao Strait, the Battle of Cape Engaño and the Battle off Samar, as well as other actions.

Leyte Gulf is also notable as the first battle in which Japanese aircraft carried out organized kamikaze attacks. Also worth noting is the fact that Japan at this battle had fewer aircraft than the Allied Forces had sea vessels, a clear demonstration of the difference in power of the two sides at this point of the war. (Courtesy of Wikipedia)

The 96th then went on to Okinawa where they fought an intense battle where, according to the Buffalo Courier Express wrote:

“The 96th… ended World War II with a record crediting it with killing more of the enemy in one day than any division in U.S. Army history…In the final stages of the island fight, the 96th marked up a record for a single day’s hunting more than 1.800 Japanese were killed on the Yaeju-Dake escarpment.”

Researching information on the 96th Division Signal Corps sent chills through my spine. My father never talked about the war, he never glorified it or bragged about his part in that war. My mother said that when he returned he would often wake up in the middle of the night screaming–reliving what he had seen and been a part of. Near the end of his life when he was in the hospital and heavily drugged, the nightmares of that war returned and he again would be talking wildly as if he was re-living those final battles of World War II. During the time he was away, his mother passed away and he was unable to attend her funeral. He also suffered from contracting malaria and had to remain in the hospital in Okinawa until a few months after the war ended. He was drastically thin and weak.

My dad’s story is not much different than the stories of countless other Servicemen who have put aside their lives to protect our country.

So, to my dad I say, “Thank You, I’m so proud to be your daughter.” And for all those who have family members who are now serving or have served, a big thanks and God Bless to them on this Memorial Day.

(For those who have stories about family members who have served, please feel free to write them in the comment section,  I’d love to read them and honor them.)

7 Responses to “THANKS DAD!”

  1. the nightmares of that war returned and he again would be talking wildly as if he was re-living those final battles

    I want to thank your dad as well. My dad did the same thing near the end of his life. I saw him cry, which I had never seen him do before, as he woke up from a nightmare reliving some battle I had no clue about.

    Nice post and tribute to your father deary.

  2. I grew up being told the First and Second World War were ‘good’ wars since we were attacked. I’m English so have some intense memories of the post WWII years in the south of England as well as the memories of my parents that may become posts one day. My Dad was 30 when he joined the navy resulting in he and my mother being mostly separated over the ensuing 7 years. He worked in the engine rooms of the ships he was assigned to and knew from seeing what happened to others in the fleet there’d be no chance for anyone that far below if they were bombed or torpedoed. Strafing runs by the German Air Force were common and he too saw comrades die suddenly and messily. Although my mother frowned on him telling me gory details she had her own stories about life in London during the Blitz. She worked in a munitions factory near one of the big shipyards and saw her share of action.

    As I grew up I took a lot of time studying the backgrounds of both wars and learned, as you probably have too, that things were a lot more complicated than we were taught in our high school history classes. I’ve learned for myself there are no good wars and no righteous wars but there are brave and honorable warriors. Your Dad was one of them, as was mine and so many more even among our named enemies. My father was born 100 years ago come November and the Memorial Day I still honor was once called Armistice Day – November 11, 1918 at 11:00 am when the guns that nearly destroyed Europe fell silent. I remember going to the Cenotaph with my Dad every 11.11 that I was at home in Canada as where wreaths were laid and respect was shown to the old soldiers and sailors who had survived two wars. My deepest wish is that all the guns fall silent forever.

  3. Indeed, your father was a handsome devil, ME. Thank you for sharing his story with us here. What a man, what a patriot. And thank you to your mother, foo, for HER sacrifice during that time.

    Unfortunately, both of my grandfathers died beofre I was born or when I was quite young, so I never heard their stories. But I have an “adotped” grandfather who served in the Navy in the Pacific, in the same division and time as John Kennedy. I was grateful that he was willing to share his storied from that time, including that the PT boats on which they served were basically wood, and highly flammable. Wow…

    My dad served in the Navy, but (thankfully), never saw action. My uncle was in VietNam, and saw things that no one should have to see. Sadly, too many of our men and women in combat have seen things they should never have had to see, either…I have a nephew currently on active duty in the Marine Corps, who just returned not too long ago from Iraq. Another uncle was int he Marines, the Merchant Marines, and the Army, and saw action in WWII. Another uncvle was a Drill Sargent in the Marine Corps., and I have a chosen nephew who is a Captain in the Army, Blackhawk helicopter pilot, who has done two tours in Iraq. He is getting out this summer.

    Thanks, friend, for sharing this with me. And for allowing us to mention our family who served. I know you are proud of your father, as well you should be…

  4. The Pacific War and its island-hopping campaign was an absolutely horrific meat-grinder; not that Europe wasn’t, but the brutality of places like Iwo Jima and Okinawa were their own unique Hell. Thank you for posting, and thank you and everyone else who has/had a vet in the family.

    My grandfather (mother’s side) was an Army combat engineer in the Pacific, at Eniwetok, Ulithi, Okinawa and finally the Japanese occupation forces. He left us last month at 91, and left me what is now my most treasured possession – a Japanese “meatball” flag he kept with the names of the places he’d been and those in his platoon. My other grandfather was in the 8th Air Force (USAAC) in Europe, landing at Normandy a few days after D-Day and making the long drive to Paris and finally to Berlin. He left us a few years back. Dad’s retired Navy, riverine in the Mekong Delta being one of the highlights of his six years in VietNam.

    Memorial Day makes me uncomfortable in a way; I don’t like hearing about “military discounts” at various places on Memorial Day weekend or sales, etc. The day is about the people who can’t take advantage of the discounts anymore, and the families who still deal with that loss every day.

  5. Mary Ellen Says:

    Thanks to all of you who left messages and your own stories about family members who have given their time and put their lives on the line for our country. That also applies to our allies who valiantly fought beside our troops in past wars.

    As Susan put so well, “My deepest wish is that all the guns fall silent forever.”

    Peace.

  6. Mary Ellen.. Thank you for the moving tribute to your dad. Like you, I have a deep admiration for anyone who’s worn the uniform in defense of our nation. I also make it a point to educate myself and retell their stories because I feel it’s important for future generations to know the sacrifices made on our behalf. I have two brothers and a father-in-law who served in the military, all of whom, in some form, were in engaged in military action.

    I actually wrote a similar post about my father-in-law early last year that I thought you might find interesting.

    Again, thanks!

  7. Thanks Nunly for sharing your dad’s story. Sadly, we are approaching a time when the last vets of WWII will be moving on. I hope those that haven’t will share their stories with us before they go.

    I had the pleasure of getting to know two Jewish WWII vets very well before their passing. One was a B-17 bombardier who flew more than 20 missions, including the bombing of Dresden. He never spoke about it. The other was his best friend who was present at the liberation of Dachau. Both bore the scars of their service in silence, neither regretted that service.

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